Five Steps On How To Become Swingers
Make sure this is something both parties are certain they want to try.
Be honest and open with your partner, if either of you has any doubts before trying the swingers lifestyle out, then we suggest you forget it.
Join a swingers dating website. Once you’ve signed up to a swingers lifestyle club online.
You now have the opportunity to chat with experienced swingers from around the world. You can now ask members all the questions and worries you may have about becoming a swinger couple.
The members on these adult dating sites will give you honest and truthful answers, which should put your mind at rest.
Make friends and chat regularly to find out if becoming a swinger is right for you.
Set yourself ground rules and stick to them. Here are a few examples.
If on your first meet up with another couple, one of you decides they really can’t do this, then call it a day and both of you go home.
Decide if you are going to have same room sex, or away from your partner in a different room.
Decide if you just want sex with your partner whilst in the same room as other couples having sex. Talk about these things before the event.
Plan to meet up with another couple for drinks and to socialize with them.
This way you all get to know each other better and can then decide if you want to take things forward or not.
Once you have decided to actually move forward and go through with having sex with another couple.
We suggest you have a couple of drinks to loosen up, and then proceed to let your hair down and go all out, and enjoy the evening.
Once the swingers date has happened, we suggest you talk to each other to gauge each other’s feelings and see if you both want to do it again.